Should I be worried about my dream, please help!

Should I be worried about my dream, please help!

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Sat, 05/17/2008 - 17:28
Astral eyes

Join Date: 2007-12-08
Forum Posts: 15

Hey everyone,

I had a strange dream the othernight. I looked up the meaning and it was kinda worrying. I had a different interpretation and i liked mine better but what do you guys think.

I was wearing a white wedding dress and I was rollerskating and doing a few tricks like jumping over things. I was getting married to my husband(Im married in real life) but he never showed up. It wasnt really a reception place and it wasnt a really a wedding. I was crying and was really upset and then the scenery changed but Iwas still wearing the wedding dress.

Then i saw my mum and two other people. (My mum passed away in Nov 2007) I didnt take note of who the people were because i was so happy to see my mum. Her skin was glowing and she looked heavenly, amazing!. She was wearing the same clothes as in her coffin, she has also worn that outfit to my wedding in reality, years ago. We hugged and I didnt want to let go. Then she was talking and I was focusing on her voice to see if it sounded the same, and it did. I was happy bout that. Then I asked her advice, but i cant remember what the question was, and she said that maybe i had been spending too much money. Soon after I woke up and was really scared.

I looked up wedding and it said death for the dreamer.I thought maybe death of a relationship or feelings for my partner as we had a fight 1 day earlier. Or death of my mum. Ive dreampt of a wedding before and nothing happened. What do you guys think?

Im sure the part with my mum in it was really great but my husband seems to think talking to dead people in a dream is a bad omen.

Thanks for your help

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Sat, 05/17/2008 - 19:06
Astral eyes

Join Date: 2007-12-08
Forum Posts: 15

Hey I thought this really made sense to what my circumstances are in real life. Its from a web page with dream interpretations......

Wedding

To see a wedding in your dream, symbolizes a new beginning or transition in your current life. Dreams involving weddings are often negative and highlight some anxiety or fear. It often refers to feelings of bitterness, sorrow, or death. Alternatively, wedding dreams reflect your issues about commitment and independence.

To dream that you are getting married to your current spouse again, represents your wedded bliss and happiness. It highlights your strong commitment to each other. It may also signify a new phase (such as parenthood) that you are entering in your life.

Wedding Dress

To wear a wedding dress in your dream, indicates that you are evaluating and assessing your personal relationship.

Id still like to know your thoughts though...........................................................

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Sat, 05/17/2008 - 19:44
Jaco

Join Date: 2004-01-19
Forum Posts: 38

Hi Astral eyes,

It is not a good idea to discuss your dreams because it is personal to you only. Symbols and scenes in your dreams are for yourself. You will have a long abscense of communication through dreams if you do not keep it to yourself.

These dreams should be differensiated from dreams which is only projections from your subconsious mind and have no value. Your intuition will guide you on this.

Generally, a wedding symolises physical death for one of the participants. (if the dream is not a subconsious projection from the mind)

death can be avoided if the person really makes huge efforts to progress spiritually. 

 In the astral course you will learn more on the interpretation of dreams as a guide and to let your intuition guide you on their interpretation.

 All the best with your investigations.

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Sat, 05/17/2008 - 22:48
Steve F

Join Date: 2003-12-26
Forum Posts: 182

Hi Astral Eyes,

I know how you feel when you say that you got scared from the dream as a couple of dreams that I've have had, had a sense or type of fear that arises after the dream. These types of dreams can warn us of future events which could occur to us which we would have no other way of for telling the possible future events.

I know that it can be daunting and even scary when dreams like this occur as the uneasy feeling can be unsettling but the dream is not always a final outcome, I'm not saying that what's in the dream meaning won't happen but as Jaco said that these dream out comes can be changed by doing the spiritual work.

You need to be strong in looking into this dream and use your understanding and intuition to sense the deep meaning it has for you. You can also reflect over the dream and try to understand it in more depth by relaxing, concentrating on the dream and going over it.

I would be cautious about the accuracy of a lot of the dream guides out there due to varying content that they contain

Are you enrolled in any of the courses?

Steve

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Tue, 05/27/2008 - 22:36
David G

Join Date: 2003-09-08
Forum Posts: 900

Hi Astral Eyes,

Symbols in dreams can have lots of different meanings depending on the circumstances of the dream and what you're going through in daily life. See if you can remember what your first feeling about what the dream meant was because your intuition comes in there and that's most likely to be correct.

If you and your husband had a fight just before the dream and you've been thinking about that, then that might have filtered through and created the circumstances of the dream, rather than it being symbolic.

That said, weddings and wedding dresses both can be symbolic of things when we see them. Maybe as well as what Steve suggested to get more meaning from the dream you could ask to be given it again, or to have other dreams that show you what it meant?

All the best with things, and don't let the dream put you off, just keep trying to find out what was in there for you to learn.

Take care,
David

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Sat, 05/31/2008 - 18:47
Astral eyes

Join Date: 2007-12-08
Forum Posts: 15

Hey guys, thanks for all your responses, they helped alot.

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Sat, 05/31/2008 - 21:12
Steve F

Join Date: 2003-12-26
Forum Posts: 182

Hello Astra Eyes,

Wishing you all the very best and all the strenght for you spiritual search.

Steve

#7
Sat, 05/31/2008 - 21:54
Paycus

Join Date: 2005-09-15
Forum Posts: 187

Hi Astral Eyes

Irrespective of the dream, the situation, the people, the place - I espond to dreams according to the "feeling" I had while having it and use intuition to help me understand it in terms of my own personal symbolism. The techniques for recalling dreams, gaining lucidity, awareness, concentration, etc on the Astral course have been a great benefit to me in aiding my self understanding.

Best wishes
Jackie